Just thought I'd share for you fabric softener lovers...
I found a fabric softener that is free of shellfish, peanuts, tree nuts, milk, eggs, soy, sesame, wheat, gluten, and corn (company confirmed). It is called Eco-Select, and I found it at my WalMart. They are biodegradable dryer sheets (which I don't like as much as liquid) and are completely natural. They have an unscented version and scented (where the scents are derived from all natural essential oils).
They were as cheap as Bounce's unscented ones and corn free (which is great for us as Downy is not, though we continue to use it).
They are in a light blue boring looking box with all the other dryer sheets.